Recent comments in /f/newjersey

spicypickless t1_je51mlh wrote

This legit saved my life as someone who does environmental fieldwork. One NY site I visited a few times was infested with ticks like the worst I’ve ever been to and permithrin allowed me to come home with not a single tick.. (not alive at least)

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FeverFocus t1_je50nmc wrote

Understand that it could be hard at first. Dogs aren't great at adjusting to sudden change. Have lots of patience with them while they adjust and adapt to their new surroundings and routine with you.

You might see some bad behaviors or the dog doing things you don't want it to do at first. This is normal while they deal with the stress and anxiety of the situation.

Go slowly with them, introduce new things gradually. The first time you bring them home give them time to explore outside, get used to some of the scents. A walk outside will also help reduce nervous energy.

When you get inside keep them on the leash at first and guide them through your home room by room. Let them smell everything.

Know that they are going to have accidents, accept that they will find ways into things you didn't expect. Try not to get mad at them, don't yell. Instead when they do something you don't like try reflecting their attention to stop the behavior.

It can take a few weeks for the dog to get comfortable and settle in and for their true personality to come out.

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Smacpats111111 t1_je50ixu wrote

Reply to Irvington NJ by MurrDOC_

Jersey City- Some nice areas, some ok, some not great. Research.

Newark- Ironbound is ok I suppose

Irvington- no go zone during the day.

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jimgolgari t1_je4zx2n wrote

I was bit by a lone star 3 years ago and got Alpha Gal Syndrome, which is that red meat allergy.

1 tick bite and no beef, pork, cheese, venison, lamb, jello, marshmallows, I can juuust tolerate butter.

BE SUPER VIGILANT! DONT END UP LIKE ME!

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PurgatoryRider85 t1_je4zuhw wrote

It’s wild, that for all the government screws up, they somehow mastered a very specific brand of uneasiness when they built these state hospitals/sanitariums. There’s a building on Long Island that’s just a larger version of this one that was once the country’s most populated psych ward

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Laraujo31 t1_je4yzh4 wrote

Reply to Irvington NJ by MurrDOC_

The area by the Union and Maplewood borders are ok and by ok i mean you are on the outskirts of the terrible areas. I would absolutely stay away from the Newark/East Orange border. That area is basically a warzone. If you have kids, the school system in Irvington (JC and Newark as well) are terrible. Houses are cheaper in Irvington when compared to JC and Newark but that is for a good reason.

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silentsnip94 t1_je4xcgz wrote

Always harness over leash. A good harness they will not be able to wiggle out of as it goes behind the legs. If anything, a collar would slip off much easier. Especially in the future if you want to take the dog in the car, you'll need a harness and a safety tether that goes from the seat to the harness hookup point. A collar will break their neck if you get into an accident.

Dog parks are fine, and it's good for dog socialization. Just remove them if others get too rowdy.

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ShadowDolly t1_je4w2al wrote

It is natural to want to show off your new dog to all your friends and family members right away, but it's best to give your dog a few weeks to settle in to their home routine before doing so. I volunteer with a rescue and so many times, people adopt dogs and immediately take them to their family members' house or a party or some place similar and completely overwhelm a dog who is already overwhelmed just by the nature of their circumstances.

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