Submitted by mediocre-plebeian t3_11efed6 in personalfinance

My spouse and I tracked our expenses for January-February and we are consistently over spending our income by about 300-350 per month, so we are losing that much each month. By my math, it will only be 1-2 years until all our money is gone.

I would gladly welcome any insight or critiques you all have on where I can save or budget better. Thanks in advance!

Goals: stay under our budget by at least 100-200 per month and roll any extra into a HYSA to increase emergency fund for impending expenses listed below. I would also love to be able to contribute more to my 401k per the prime directive.

I am aware that an obvious answer may be "increase your income" or "stop tithing". My spouse works part time from home but hours are limited to about 2-3 hrs/week due to not enough work to go around/lack of communication + with her salary range it's not worth it for her to work FT outside home (most of her paycheck would go to daycare).

Gross income ~58k (semi-LCOL area) Net income ~38k Net monthly ~ 3000 net monthly after tithing on gross income ~2600

about 9k in checking, and 3k in Discover HYSA @ 3.50% APY

I'm contributing 6% to an employer matched Roth IRA (50% up to 6%); balance is 11,000.

Biggest Monthly Expenses:

  • Mortgage 30 yr fixed rate @ 3.75%: 889 including 33 for PMI
  • car payment: 280. This will be paid for in about 5 months.
  • Food for 2 adults and a toddler: 400-600. We dine out about or less and usually keep it under $20 total.
  • Water/electricity: ~ avg 200
  • gas: 200
  • Mobile phone plan: 92
  • internet: 85

impending Expenses:

  • New baby due in a few months: expected $3k up front
  • New HVAC system within the next 1-3 years quoted at 8-10k
  • New used car may be needed within the next 1-5 years (I currently drive an 18 year old Honda with over 350k miles and valued at about 4k if sold to a private party).
  • Timing belt replacement and maintenance for said Honda - 1k

Changes made so far:

  • I negotiated a 8.5% salary increase last year.
  • had appraisal of home so PMI will likely be canceled soon.
  • trying out Visible by Verizon plan to save $30/mo on phone bill.
  • we are trying to stick to $100/week food budget
  • In the past year I've donated plasma a few times and flipped some marketplace items for a total profit of ~$1300

TL;DR: not making enough and spending too much. Looking for ways to change this.

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