Recent comments in /f/providence
rustybullrake t1_j622hx6 wrote
Reply to comment by FrutaFertil in The owner of Rebelle Bagel was just named as 2023 James Beard Award Semifinalist by lestermagnum
It's not diagnosis, just casual observation of repeated and consistent patterns of behavior.
Compulsively replying to quite literally every single fractionally negative comment is part of what I mean when by emotional regulation issues. It would suggest an inability to self-soothe.
RhodeWarrior401 t1_j622g0q wrote
Reply to Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
I never leave rhode island.
_LoanRanger_ t1_j622dq2 wrote
Reply to comment by PM_ME_ASS_SALAD in Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
I’ve had better pizza in Arizona.
Check for yourself. Is providence on the list?
https://news.yahoo.com/50-best-pizzerias-america-ranked-200000183.html
PM_ME_ASS_SALAD t1_j6221ps wrote
Reply to comment by _LoanRanger_ in Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
I see you’re as unserious as your opinions. Cool have fun with that.
_LoanRanger_ t1_j621yu7 wrote
Reply to comment by PM_ME_ASS_SALAD in Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
Coming from someone who’s never stepped a foot out of the state.
PM_ME_ASS_SALAD t1_j621jyg wrote
Reply to comment by _LoanRanger_ in Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
Completely telling on yourself if you think Providence doesn’t have great pizza. Just admitting you know nothing or have truly horrible taste.
Disastrous_Table_669 t1_j6218df wrote
Reply to Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
I've lived in Orlando and Boston and Providence is better than both. Moved here in September and loving it so far. Can't wait for summer!
PM_ME_ASS_SALAD t1_j6217wv wrote
Reply to comment by pizzaplantboi in Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
There’s also thousands of restaurants and bars here though. Obviously you didn’t actually go to that many bars or restaurants or other places in NY, but have you gone to all of those in Providence? Probably not?
[deleted] OP t1_j620xaj wrote
Reply to comment by TheSuspiciousOwl in Affordable houseplants? by [deleted]
I am constantly giving my little ones words of encouragement.
pizzaplantboi t1_j620w3v wrote
Reply to comment by PM_ME_ASS_SALAD in Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
The thing is I sincerely went to all those bars, ate at all those restaurants and danced in all those clubs. I love exploring my city that way. I used to take myself out to dinner somewhere new by myself every Friday night when I was single living there. Now, I’m very happily engaged with someone I followed to PVD to support their career since I could get a remote job in mine. We still go back to NYC for my birthday. So, if you’re a person who truly loves and explores their city, providence can get boring compared to new York. I’m not dumping on anyone else’s taste. It’s very presumptuous of you to lump me into whoever these people are you’re generalizing.
Also - I support this city the best I can. I eat out often. We make friends with and get to know the owners of our favorite businesses. We have family that have opened businesses here that employ great local people.
Be as open minded as you think you are.
nice-noodles t1_j620lc1 wrote
Reply to comment by PM_ME_ASS_SALAD in Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
I lived in NYC for 15 years, most of my adult life. And I moved to Providence last year to be closer to my husband’s work. I am still back in NYC all the time for work, social, and family reasons, so I don’t really miss it. I appreciate the relative affordability of Providence, and I have found people to be so much more open here than Boston, where I have lived for two separate stints. My only real complaint is that too many people in Providence like to drive too fast on residential streets. I wish it were a bit more bike and pedestrian friendly here.
_LoanRanger_ t1_j6207rl wrote
Reply to comment by hobomom in Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
For anyone that’s eaten anywhere else it’s obvious the food is horrible
FrutaFertil t1_j62056z wrote
Reply to comment by nelson64 in The owner of Rebelle Bagel was just named as 2023 James Beard Award Semifinalist by lestermagnum
I would love to see this comment spin off into its own thread please elaborate
_LoanRanger_ t1_j62015u wrote
Reply to comment by kbd77 in Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
Jesus Christ where are you talking about? The food is horrible. Frozen food section has better options. I’ve had better pizza in Tulsa. Seriously. Have you been across any borders?
PM_ME_ASS_SALAD t1_j61ze5v wrote
Reply to comment by kbd77 in Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
Providence food scene blows Boston out of the water. Not even close.
Unless you love your specific fucking sushi pop style restaurant in the new bland soulless commercial hellscape that is your new loft living building more than the other exact same thing down the street.
Boston used to be cool. Had a chance with the seaport and Cambridge developments. Ruined both.
PM_ME_ASS_SALAD t1_j61yzvi wrote
Reply to comment by pizzaplantboi in Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
People who say this always amuse me. I lived in both. People like to reference the thousands of restaurants they never ate at, the hundreds of bars and clubs they never went to, all the concerts happening every weekend they never bought tickets for. Truth is, your clique is only so big, and that can exist in any city. And so often it thrives much better in a tighter community like Providence than it ever can it a major metro like NYC.
Love both. Prefer Providence.
FrutaFertil t1_j61y4pb wrote
Reply to comment by nelson64 in The owner of Rebelle Bagel was just named as 2023 James Beard Award Semifinalist by lestermagnum
I’m Milena no wait YOURE milena no wait he’s Milena this game is fun
Why_is_juice_blue t1_j61y2o6 wrote
Reply to comment by Brotendo88 in I always laugh a little when I pass the Armenian Heritage Park-Taco Bell combo. What are your favorite Providence juxtapositions? by jay--mac
I lived near that police station, not once, day or night, did I ever see a cop in that building.
FrutaFertil t1_j61y2cx wrote
Reply to comment by nelson64 in The owner of Rebelle Bagel was just named as 2023 James Beard Award Semifinalist by lestermagnum
FIERY LATINA
smokejaguar t1_j61y254 wrote
Reply to comment by waninggib in Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
COVID really kicked the hostility into high gear. I've been a mod on the sister sub for nearly a decade, and prior to COVID, moderator actions could often be counted in the low double digits for an entire year. Needless to say, that is no longer the case.
I'm currently overseas, but I've had the thought of putting together another meet up upon my return. One of the reasons I did so in the first place (other than wanting an excuse to drink beer with new and interesting strangers) was to remind the community that there is a physical person behind each username. Of the dozens of gatherings I organized, I can't recall a single serious argument/fight, despite the fact that there were people of all race/class/sex/political affiliation attending. Disagreements, sure, but civil ones.
People think twice about saying nasty things when they recognize the humanity of the person behind the screen.
FrutaFertil t1_j61xywc wrote
Reply to comment by Distinct-Ad5751 in The owner of Rebelle Bagel was just named as 2023 James Beard Award Semifinalist by lestermagnum
Please don’t call me baby. I think you’re missing the point. You’re all over this thread shitting on the nominees and we STILL don’t know where you cook so we can go try your food 😂
FrutaFertil t1_j61xqyd wrote
Reply to comment by Apokalobster in The owner of Rebelle Bagel was just named as 2023 James Beard Award Semifinalist by lestermagnum
Ooh bagel duchess sounds pretty dope, guys we found her!!
Ghostwriter2057 t1_j61wxpl wrote
Reply to comment by laterbacon in Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
So true! I am always asking them why they don't actually explore more. It's a short drive to just about anywhere.
laterbacon t1_j61wd1t wrote
Reply to comment by Ghostwriter2057 in Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
> anybody saying Providence is grimy -- I seriously don't get it.
The vast majority of people who are the loudest complainers about Providence never travel further than Attleboro
PM_ME_ASS_SALAD t1_j622q5c wrote
Reply to comment by _LoanRanger_ in Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
You cannot be seriously linking a Yahoo article to me.
Look I’m not going to pretend providence gets the recognition it deserves by unserious people linking unserious publications.
My anecdotes are that every single person I’ve brought to Providence, and Al Forno in particular, whether from NYC or Chicago or New Haven, have left reconsidering their most deeply held pizza beliefs about what is and isn’t great pizzas.
If you can’t relate, you haven’t been. Simple as.
And that’s ignoring the other 10 places in RI that give every other 10 places in a different state a run for their money.