Recent comments in /f/providence
RandomChurn t1_j682f2l wrote
Reply to Schools, neighborhoods by Sure_Guest_4535
Good luck OP with making good your escape from TX 🤞
Not sure you can grasp how a native RIer views what constitutes a reasonable commute vs what a native Texan would.
To a RIer, commuting to Brown from Barrington would be onerous; to a Texan it would be a heartbeat away. Lots of Brown staff live in Barrington, which has among the top public schools in the state, and is lovely but boring -- its nickname is Borington. That said, it's pretty idyllic for families. As is its neighbor Bristol. And both are on the ocean.
During my time at Brown, one Provost chose the opposite direction, west to Foster. That's woodsy, sparsely populated, "away from it all" -- but during the occasional bad winter, a difficult commute because they get the most snow in the state out that way.
Another provost lived in the College Hill neighborhood on the East Side, 5 min walk to the main green. Also close to the city's three good private schools for kids, Wheeler, Moses Brown and Lincoln.
Just depends on what you prefer: living in the woods, a seaside bedroom community, or in the city.
Good luck with getting the job 🍀
bungocheese t1_j681ao9 wrote
Reply to comment by salem913 in Fun restaurant for a night out? by salem913
Never been to los Andes ( blasphemy in this sub, I know) mokban is also a cool place to go with unique food and it's a bit louder than most, y shabu shabu is hot pot and I've heard good things
RandomChurn t1_j680cyw wrote
Reply to comment by kbd77 in Schools, neighborhoods by Sure_Guest_4535
>make a lot more in the private sector
Worked at Brown for 17 years, having come from the private sector. This was too true: wages and annual raises were crazy low at Brown by comparison. And while people think Brown offers great benefits, this stopped being true by the 90s!
That said, likely OP is an upper-level administrator. So, especially if they are comparing a state university in TX to an Ivy, salary should be adequate to live on the East Side or Barrington.
salem913 OP t1_j67zwxf wrote
Reply to comment by bungocheese in Fun restaurant for a night out? by salem913
Something a bit unique food wise would be great! As long as their are no pretzel bites or fried chicken sandwiches on the menu I’d be happy (basically all I ever see at kid friendly suburban spots). Maybe Los Andes?!
brick1972 t1_j67ynbg wrote
Reply to comment by AgedParmy in Everyone is asking for a tip these days by leavingthecold
I think it is the business owners responsibility to pay fairly and make the price the actual price, not throw on fees and tip requests during the final transaction. I know it's not the employees fault especially on POS.
Even people that I normally and happily tip (beyond servers - say a taxi/Uber) I'd just as soon be charged appropriately as to have a tip request at the end.
But I think in the spirit of the thread it's that these POS systems now make it to easy to misrepresent prices - at one point another local place was adding an "inflation charge" and a "healthcare for employees" and a "service fee" for pickup orders (presumably because people don't tip pickup but the system asked for a tip anyway). Just tell me the price and let me decide don't spread the ticketmaster model everywhere.
brick1972 t1_j67x7y8 wrote
Reply to comment by FrutaFertil in Everyone is asking for a tip these days by leavingthecold
Yes sorry my distaste is not for the workers it's for the owners who think setting up a POS system with tips puts the responsibility for paying workers on the customer. As well, I understand inflation but they have increased prices 20% this winter. So basically they probably had a poor business model and now are punishing their employees and customers to extract profit and eventually that house of cards topples. But it's still super popular so what do I know.
MT_Photos t1_j67s59j wrote
Reply to Introverts over 35, what are your favorite hangout places in/around Providence which are not well known? by rakman
No shortage of state parks in RI/MA. Or beaches. Also I'd recommend headphones - I don't like random people starting convos while I'm trying to recharge - headphones deter that even if they're not on
WeAreNotNowThatWhich t1_j67rx69 wrote
Reply to Introverts over 35, what are your favorite hangout places in/around Providence which are not well known? by rakman
Well, I just walked around swan point cemetery for 2 hours today and that was great, so.
Ivy61 t1_j67pb5t wrote
Reply to Berkshire Place Nursing Home 455 Douglas Ave Providence, R.I. (NEVER SEND YOUR LOVED ONES HERE). My Grandfather died here from sepsis due to neglect. by Chris_Mannix
If you haven’t already please contact the state ombudsman for long term care- she can assist by holding this nursing homes feet to the fire.
Kathleen Heren. kheren@alliancebltc.org
leavingthecold OP t1_j67no6c wrote
Reply to comment by lonely_dodo in Everyone is asking for a tip these days by leavingthecold
The lemonade man has it strategically priced where you will barely get any change but in the case you do here's a financial lesson for those who don't want to stick it in a drawer and forget about it. Get the change and keep in a small cup, next time you go food shopping bring it for self check out.
leavingthecold OP t1_j67na7o wrote
Reply to comment by galeeb in Everyone is asking for a tip these days by leavingthecold
Wow another one asking for a tip at $275 for 15-20 min of work come on , this actually reminds me of the time American Airline lost my luggage, then found it and had a guy bring it to my house from Logan, this ding dong was literally with his hand out waiting for a fucking tip, gave him the peace sign.
messerdouglas t1_j67i5vy wrote
Reply to comment by Lys0L in Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
Thanks, ill check it out!
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Lys0L t1_j67dw1c wrote
Reply to comment by messerdouglas in Do you like living in Providence? by movingtori
I just moved here from St. Petersburg FL. Tampa/St. Pete, in my FL native opinion, is the best area to live in FL, and it's not particularly close in my mind either. I was just ready for something new, but I love that city, always will.
nelson64 t1_j67ddvp wrote
Reply to comment by FrutaFertil in Everyone is asking for a tip these days by leavingthecold
I probably wouldn't tip my mechanic out of nowhere, but if I was presented with a tipping screen at checkout, I probably would lol.
Yeah I've come to notice that the people on this sub are quite different than what I imagine as typical providence residents. It feels like everyone here just hates everything and has a complaint about a lot of stuff. Like why are we getting downvoted for defending people's tips.
[deleted] t1_j67c3sr wrote
Reply to comment by FrutaFertil in Fun restaurant for a night out? by salem913
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FrutaFertil t1_j67buq9 wrote
Reply to comment by rustybullrake in The owner of Rebelle Bagel was just named as 2023 James Beard Award Semifinalist by lestermagnum
Idk just cruising thru google I can see she literally replies to ALL the reviews. Not just the bad ones, but the good ones as well. I have to say I don’t know of any other local business where the owner takes the time to respond to every single review, even to say thank you. That’s unusual but ultimately good in my eyes.
I still don’t think you’re in a position to be “diagnosing” people you don’t know. Says as much about you as you think it says about her. Just don’t go there, don’t give her your money and don’t give it your attention! Go live your life
Wide_Television_7074 t1_j67b13k wrote
Reply to comment by FrutaFertil in Urban Greens Co-Op is asking for $50K on GoFundMe by Anonymous_Casual
lack of accountability per usual for lazy operators
Wide_Television_7074 t1_j67axux wrote
is this a shocker? the place is uncomfortable. the constant virtue signaling and social justice warrior bullshit. they are spending money printing lawn signs with political messages — y’all are a freakin grocery market… you lost track of what matters to the existence of your business. blown opportunity to do good and make a profitable business. I hope the market that replaces it is neutral, and focuses on being a quality market — no soapboxes, no “using their platform”, no signs or pamphlets — I just want a grocery market.
FrutaFertil t1_j67aowo wrote
Reply to Fun restaurant for a night out? by salem913
Dolores is always bumping and fun, more of an all night spot bc the food takes a minute. Nothing a margarita pitcher can’t solve!
FrutaFertil t1_j67al8f wrote
Reply to comment by galeeb in Everyone is asking for a tip these days by leavingthecold
You’re paying for skill, not time. You know that, right?
FrutaFertil t1_j67ahvx wrote
Reply to comment by Evdoggydog15 in Everyone is asking for a tip these days by leavingthecold
Yes, $1 is pretty good and harmless. Or you can pour your own coffee at home too
FrutaFertil t1_j67afg2 wrote
Reply to comment by nelson64 in Everyone is asking for a tip these days by leavingthecold
I always think to myself like leaving an extra $1 tip isn’t going to kill me or ruin my budget but it goes a long way for the service team.
Some of the discussion here I really don’t get. I would 100% tip my mechanic. Especially if I plan on getting future services. They’ll give special attention to my car, squeeze me in for appointments when I’m in an emergency and look the other way when my car is messy inside.
FrutaFertil t1_j679psk wrote
Reply to comment by brick1972 in Everyone is asking for a tip these days by leavingthecold
They need the tips at 7 stars because the new owners who laid off all the workers in the pandemic rehired them at $9/hr plus tips instead of above-minimum wages. That was the genesis of the unionization effort if my memory serves me right.
FieryVegetables t1_j682rlb wrote
Reply to comment by WeAreNotNowThatWhich in Introverts over 35, what are your favorite hangout places in/around Providence which are not well known? by rakman
Swan Point is wonderful. The trees, gravestones, river….