Recent comments in /f/providence
commandantskip t1_iuoapk9 wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in How is the dating scene in Providence? by lisachung93
Wtf? So much entitlement!
decaf_flower t1_iuo9in4 wrote
Reply to comment by Proof-Variation7005 in How is the dating scene in Providence? by lisachung93
i will also say, that for how 'accessible' the rockies are when you live in Denver, there are plenty of comparable drives/trips you can take outside of providence if you really wanted to do some hiking. MA, NH, ME, VT are all not that far when you're used to 2 hr mountain traffic. I was once stuck in 8 hrs. of mountain traffic in colorado.
decaf_flower t1_iuo9am3 wrote
Reply to comment by lisachung93 in How is the dating scene in Providence? by lisachung93
Hey i used to live in Denver. Almost ten years ago now, and only for a year because i didn't feel like i really fit in for similar reasons. I'm white but not thin and appreciate nature but its not compulsive for me, nor am in a middling tech or beer company. that being said, its just a much smaller pool here. as far as a numbers game - denver has more people. and i think is more dog friendly on the whole. its 'chill'. providence is 'easy'.
i haven't tried dating here much yet after being here for a year but i will say i was surprised i was ghosted, and that a 42 year old couldn't figure out how to ask me out on a proper date. i think that denver love-bombing and/or fear of commitment is a thing - people just like being intense out there and often feel like they got something to prove, and people aren't trying as hard here. for better and for worse.
that being said, if you are over bros that don't have a personality besides wilderness survival even though they live very much on the grid, you may like the options more here! Good luck : )
FunLife64 t1_iuo8pfh wrote
Reply to comment by PM_ME_ASS_SALAD in How is the dating scene in Providence? by lisachung93
Also, people…they’re dogs. I love dogs but my dogs would be happy running around a landfill. A luxury dog park means nothing to them.
FunLife64 t1_iuo8fgd wrote
Reply to comment by Proof-Variation7005 in How is the dating scene in Providence? by lisachung93
Not sure the dating scene is better in PVD…Denver is full of young professionals
noungning t1_iuo7vmb wrote
Reply to comment by oolongfog in How is the dating scene in Providence? by lisachung93
I'm going to sound old AF, but I guess in my generation it was very diverse. I'm Asian, went to school in Providence, and almost 30% of my class was Asian.
FunLife64 t1_iuo7o87 wrote
It’s really not that difficult. This off ramp only has any significant traffic between 7-9am on weekdays. Not exactly prime supermarket shopping times.
lovecraft_401 t1_iuo31go wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in How is the dating scene in Providence? by lisachung93
Lots of people adopted dogs during the pandemic and didn’t realize the sacrifices it takes to care for one.
Also it’s illegal in RI to bring your dog into any place that serves food or drinks. This one probably shouldn’t have been allowed through the door.
lateroundpick t1_iuo2wbw wrote
Well, with all the bike lanes, Providence now has people just ride their bikes there. 👍
Dry_Faithlessness135 t1_iuo1cq5 wrote
it is going to be … A Shit Show.
raddishes_united t1_iuo1bkq wrote
Reply to comment by Proof-Variation7005 in The entrance and exit of Trader Joe's. Looks like trouble. by tads73
Ok but at least they are trying.
Alarmed_Nebula3917 t1_iuo0x31 wrote
Reply to comment by gradontripp in How is the dating scene in Providence? by lisachung93
At least it’s not a cat
Proof-Variation7005 t1_iuo066h wrote
[deleted] t1_iunzrph wrote
Reply to comment by Darrylblooberry in The entrance and exit of Trader Joe's. Looks like trouble. by tads73
Hahaha yep
[deleted] t1_iunzo8w wrote
Reply to comment by azknight in The entrance and exit of Trader Joe's. Looks like trouble. by tads73
Aint that the truth
Megs0226 t1_iunzmjc wrote
Of course it will be trouble. It’s Trader Joe’s.
scrambledtoes_ t1_iunz351 wrote
Reply to comment by lisachung93 in How is the dating scene in Providence? by lisachung93
I live in fox point and I love it! Lots of students here but it’s very walkable to downtown, wayland square, and wickenden street (lots of shops/places to eat). I also feel very safe here
its_howi t1_iunz1y2 wrote
Reply to comment by oolongfog in How is the dating scene in Providence? by lisachung93
I’m an asian guy who’s in their mid 20s that grew up in RI. Disregarding the colleges and universities in Prov (Brown, RISD, etc) there isn’t much diversity in terms of an Asian population. I think it’s gotten better over the years but definitely doesn’t compare to like Boston but I do imagine it might be better than Denver (visited for the first time last year, absolutely gorgeous out there). Dating scene I heard can be tough for young professionals around here (luckily I met my gf in college right before I graduated) but not impossible. For the OP, I think you just have to find where you fit in. PVD is diverse in the different things you can do so don’t lose faith if it seems challenging at first to find your footing.
psyguy45 t1_iunxa9g wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in How is the dating scene in Providence? by lisachung93
It’s the 80/20 rule. 80% incompetence to 20% competence
amp138 t1_iunx85o wrote
Reply to How is the dating scene in Providence? by lisachung93
When I was single I didn't find dating in Providence to be too hard however if you start dating around you're going to find that there's a lot of crossover especially in the Providence 'scene' so to speak. Hang around enough at places like Kimis, Nolans, Ogies, Avery, Scurvy (aka west end haunts) you're gonna see a lot of the same people.
BrendanBSharp t1_iunvobb wrote
Reply to comment by Jumpy_Ring8409 in The entrance and exit of Trader Joe's. Looks like trouble. by tads73
It is, and that’s only the exit. The entrance is on the other side.
[deleted] t1_iunuq66 wrote
Reply to comment by psyguy45 in How is the dating scene in Providence? by lisachung93
What gets me is they have already been asked, at least on one occasions, to stop. I didn’t elaborate but they were also letting it walk around without a leash.
Look, I’m pro-dog just like any normal human would be, but let’s also keep them on leashes when out. No, I’m not afraid of it. But I also don’t want your dog waltzing up to me unhindered to take a piss on my shoe, hypothetically.
Some people blow my mind.
TartProfessional246 t1_iununna wrote
the entrance to the parking garage is on the other side
Dry_Faithlessness135 t1_iunulqb wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in How is the dating scene in Providence? by lisachung93
I high key hope for the same thing.
r0k0v t1_iuoaqkb wrote
Reply to How is the dating scene in Providence? by lisachung93
I wouldn’t say providence is super dog friendly. Parts of the city are very walkable. Many breweries allow dogs on the patio. There are a few dog parks. It’s not like a Burlington, VT where dogs are allowed in many cute shops. The amount of time of the year where it’s nice enough to enjoy a place with a patio is also going to be shorter than Denver
Idk if there’s a conclusive way to say how the dating scene is. It’s New England, by and large there are many more established friend groups and more of a socially closed off vibe than Some place like California or Colorado with a lot of transplants. I’m from RI and it was much easier to make friends and meet people when I lived in SoCal than in providence.
One very nice thing about providence is you can drive 10-20 min outside the city and be in a nice woodsy area to walk the dog. There’s certainly pockets of outdoorsy people , but it’s not a majority or significant chunk like I imagine Denver is.
Personally I wouldn’t determine where to live based on the dating scene, thats so random and variable. If you like the place and you’re happy in your life good things will come IMO.