Recent comments in /f/providence
MargaretDumont t1_irw16yn wrote
Reply to comment by khinzeer in Mental health de-escalation hotline. by Blackulor
Yeah the comment you commented on says that the cops come with mental health workers. So what do you have a problem with there? OP was asking how to get crisis intervention involved. Even if they're there with police it's better than just police. They had already called the non-emergency police number. Where's the ignoring you're complaining about?
Edit: You know what? We've walked away from my point. You can care how this person is handled and still care for who he might hurt. That's it.
tads73 OP t1_irw15fd wrote
Reply to comment by Jerkeyjoe in Followup to 95 North ramp Atwells Ave. Just take a right turn onto the highway... by tads73
I admire the project, but not every aspect, like this on ramp.
khinzeer t1_irw0vkl wrote
Reply to comment by MargaretDumont in Mental health de-escalation hotline. by Blackulor
What do you mean by treatment? The state ward? Are you at all familiar with these places?
This person is inevitably going to end up subjected to violence and locked away in prison or somewhere worse, where they will be subjected to more violence. The only question is how many people they hurt before hand.
You are not really suggesting anything. Unarmed social workers don't and won't intervene in situations like this (because they don't want to get stabbed). This is something that (unfortunately) can only be solved by coercive force. Calling the police is the least-bad of a bunch of unpleasant options.
Jerkeyjoe t1_irw0lyr wrote
Reply to Followup to 95 North ramp Atwells Ave. Just take a right turn onto the highway... by tads73
Everyone's complaining now but when the project is done it will (probably) turn out fine
Blackulor OP t1_irvz7mi wrote
Reply to comment by Seasnek in Mental health de-escalation hotline. by Blackulor
Thanks for this.
MargaretDumont t1_irvyoye wrote
Reply to comment by khinzeer in Mental health de-escalation hotline. by Blackulor
Not what I'm saying at all.
"I wish people had as much sympathy for..."
Yeah they do though. It's not a binary switch; you care for one and not the other and never the twain shall meet. You've gone and leapt to "non-coercively care for a violent predator on the street." Nope. Contain, approach in a calm manner and attempt to calm the person to increase the chances of removing the weapon successfully and without injury. Take off the street to protect from self and others and treat. The truth is, the cops have a history of rushing in with no de-escalation training and treating a suspect with a one size fits all approach. Some police forces are doing good work to train on this stuff but many aren't. The concern this person has is valid. No one is saying "Well, I don't want this guy to be harmed, so I guess I'll let him stab all these women and children." You're way oversimplifying. I'm one of the women who's been followed and threatened by a violent stranger on the streets of Providence just for going for a walk. So often nobody cares about that stuff until they're speaking on our behalf to make an argument like this.
Edit: And OP didn't ignore the situation. They're actively responding to it.
RedditSkippy t1_irvx7ca wrote
Reply to comment by tads73 in Followup to 95 North ramp Atwells Ave. Just take a right turn onto the highway... by tads73
George Street on-ramp wants a word.
tads73 OP t1_irvx2o5 wrote
Reply to comment by werewolfmanjack in Followup to 95 North ramp Atwells Ave. Just take a right turn onto the highway... by tads73
The exit must terminate prior to the old bridge set for demolition. They should have built the 95n on ramp at Broadway.
tads73 OP t1_irvwt5i wrote
Reply to comment by beerspeaks in Followup to 95 North ramp Atwells Ave. Just take a right turn onto the highway... by tads73
No you didn't. The answer is, it has to cut abruptly because the lane of travel has to terminate prior to entering the footprint of the old bridge. This portion of the roadway is set for demolition. I don't understand what you mean by not passing through the middle of the city part. Although I agree, the project has nothing to do with moving the highway away from the city.
khinzeer t1_irvwhxk wrote
Reply to comment by MargaretDumont in Mental health de-escalation hotline. by Blackulor
This is naïve view that is ultimately harmful.
How do you non coercively care for a violent predator on the street? What specifically do you mean by de-escalation?
beerspeaks t1_irvuus8 wrote
Reply to comment by tads73 in Followup to 95 North ramp Atwells Ave. Just take a right turn onto the highway... by tads73
> But you didn't explain why there is limited space.
Yes I did.
> A major highway should not be passing immediately through the middle of a city.
tads73 OP t1_irvumuq wrote
Reply to comment by beerspeaks in Followup to 95 North ramp Atwells Ave. Just take a right turn onto the highway... by tads73
Good answer, you win. Your so smart. But you didn't explain why there is limited space.
Blackulor OP t1_irvt9ha wrote
Reply to comment by werewolfmanjack in Mental health de-escalation hotline. by Blackulor
My situational instincts are lukewarm it’s true. Dunking probably feels nice. Is it just me that takes the hit or will the other folks around also be to blame? Will we bear collective guilt for the misfortune of the slashee or the slasher?
Abolish the police. Help the unfortunate.
beerspeaks t1_irvslr2 wrote
Reply to comment by tads73 in Followup to 95 North ramp Atwells Ave. Just take a right turn onto the highway... by tads73
If you have your own lane, it's not a merge.
And it's abrupt because it's temporary and they have limited space to work with. A major highway should not be passing immediately through the middle of a city.
werewolfmanjack t1_irvsljr wrote
Reply to comment by tads73 in Followup to 95 North ramp Atwells Ave. Just take a right turn onto the highway... by tads73
Probably a civil engineer interjecting some irreverent comedy into their work, like a “life comes at you fast” type road metaphor.
werewolfmanjack t1_irvrtrc wrote
Reply to comment by Blackulor in Mental health de-escalation hotline. by Blackulor
Next time you feel the need to publicly congratulate yourself by dunking the most lukewarm take possible, just let it go. The consensus on this very liberally minded board is that your situational instincts are misguided. Your public admission of inaction will likely lead to someone else’s misfortune. When an innocent bystander gets their face slashed by this person, that’s on you.
legit_visualyimpared t1_irvrdw4 wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in Does anyone commute from Providence to Boston each day by train? We are seriously considering purchasing a home but we work at Mass General Hospital. Looking for people with experience to either talk us into it or talk us out of it. by [deleted]
Probably for the best. My job requires me to bring a lot of tools as well as have the ability to drive between locations within the state. I’m kinda stuck using a car sadly.
tads73 OP t1_irvq1fz wrote
Reply to comment by werewolfmanjack in Followup to 95 North ramp Atwells Ave. Just take a right turn onto the highway... by tads73
I agree, it's still a little awkward. But do you know why the merge has to be so abrupt?
Blackulor OP t1_irvpn9q wrote
Reply to comment by mightynifty_2 in Mental health de-escalation hotline. by Blackulor
No. The cops dig themselves. But I try not to miss any opportunity preach abolition. Abolish the police.
werewolfmanjack t1_irvpmp6 wrote
Reply to Followup to 95 North ramp Atwells Ave. Just take a right turn onto the highway... by tads73
Not sure what the issue is. You get your own lane, it’s not like you are merging, traffic is rarely moving at high speeds there.
mightynifty_2 t1_irvnr1t wrote
Reply to comment by Blackulor in Mental health de-escalation hotline. by Blackulor
Did you just make this entire story up so you could get a dig at the cops?
solidgoldnoodle t1_irvnc4x wrote
Reply to Waxing places in Providence by give_me_wine
Evolve Apothecary. The Wax Witch isn’t currently taking new clients but worth keeping an eye on her instagram in case she does open her books in the future. However as others have said it’s still hard to get spots on her calendar even once you are a client, so Evolve is a great option with lots of availability.
Blackulor OP t1_irvllwy wrote
Reply to comment by galeeb in Mental health de-escalation hotline. by Blackulor
It’s my fear for my neighbors safety that informs this ideology.
pscp t1_irvlj0v wrote
Reply to Mental health de-escalation hotline. by Blackulor
I wish descalation were more common. In my experience, cops treat all problems like a nail and they are the hammer.
Far-Soup5169 t1_irw1wd4 wrote
Reply to comment by leavingthecold in Catalytic converter stolen. Already filed police report. Anyone else have any suggestions on what to do next? by BearsRpeopl2
They tend to prefer parking lots where they can hit a dozen vehicles at once. It’s been happening all over the city & surrounding towns, but apartment parking lots seem to be the biggest problem.