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hackberrypie t1_jad4dcp wrote

Maybe she just wasn't feeling it but then felt like she needed to justify it with a "reason" for why you're not doing enough? It happens.

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OPragingpanda t1_jad5f1z wrote

Maybe? I’m not trying to speculate really she’s a pretty clean communicator if she just for some it other reason stopped loving me she would’ve told me.

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hackberrypie t1_jad6vzz wrote

Maybe she didn't understand why and was trying to justify it to herself?

I don't know, of course, and I'm sorry that you're going through this. It doesn't seem reasonable to break up over a miscommunication when she noticed you were putting in effort. She could have just clarified or given you a chance after she clarified. So that's why it makes me wonder if there's something different/deeper/more confusing going on.

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