TorrenceMightingale t1_jaajkw8 wrote
It’s weird that you’d do this given how perfect the bf is. Are you being realistic with yourself? If you love him be open with him. If you have to let him go to experience whatever then go for it. If you want to be with him for the rest of your life, truly, then you have something that many others wait a lifetime for. Maybe it’s true that you just haven’t experienced enough yet, but what is “enough?”
Sweaty-Ad-3659 OP t1_jaajs6w wrote
Honestly, I don’t know, I’m just so confused. I want to be honest with him, since we’re always very honest to each other, but I really don’t want to hurt him.
TorrenceMightingale t1_jaajvrp wrote
That’s what not being honest with him will do. Brutal honesty upfront will almost always result in less pain. It’s uncomfortable for the one being honest, but realistically, this discomfort is what you’re protecting yourself from. Not him from hurt.
Sweaty-Ad-3659 OP t1_jaak03e wrote
Yes, that’s also very true, I think I will talk to him. Thank you
TorrenceMightingale t1_jaak8oz wrote
Yes ma’am. Good luck and enjoy your youth while you have it. It is a precious and short-lived commodity.
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