Submitted by ThrowRAaaaaaaaa2022 t3_10qma3z in relationship_advice
My boyfriend and I have been living together for 2 years now and have been dating for 3 years. I went to visit my parents 4 months ago in different city and stayed there for 3 weeks, when I came back I notice that he has been taking his phone everywhere with him and that's unlike him. I have access to his but have never went through it before until I came, so 2 months ago I went through his phone and found chats of him flirting with some girl he used to work with before (we both work in the same company and thats how we met) he met me and apparently he had a crush on her. I took screenshots and sent it to myself as evidence when i confront him, the messages were all about how much he truly loves her and if only she could give her a chance and mind you I was 3 months pregnant at the time, I confronted him about it and packed my stuff and left but he apologized and begged me to come back that it meant nothing and I decided to give him another chance because before that he treated me like a queen he cooks, cleans does laundry and other stuff to make my pregnancy experience easier as it is my first and he is still doing those stuff. 2 weeks ago I decided to check his phone again out of curiosity to see if he blocked that girl and he did, but to my surprise he is now flirting and sexting another girl that we work with (they work together in the same department while I work in another department), as usually I took screenshots of their chats and sent it to myself but this time I haven't confronted him or asked him about it cause I want to be really petty about it and I don't know how. I keep on taking screenshots daily to keep myself updated on what they talking about now or what they doing, one thing I've learned from the chats is that he hasn't been to his place and am not sure whether thats a good thing or not. What hurts me the most is this girl knows that he is in a relationship with me but still try to talk to me and be my friend at work, and what worries me is that their department works night shift most of the time and I don't know what they do. I've already printed out their chats and i was thinking of distributing them at work. How do I address this or handle it?
I know this might come back to kick me in the butt cause my decision is controlled by anger, hence am asking for advice on how to handle this situation