Submitted by 254lover t3_10r7g4i in relationship_advice
She gets offended with every statement I say which are never rude. A classic example is today. Back story is I put my ego down to try and work out this relationship over a week ago and apologized for how she felt even though I knew what I said as my reaction to what she did wasn't rude. She told me she needs time to think through if she needs to come back to the relationship. She then told me she has answer but she needs to tell me face to face but she doesn’t have time to meet. Today, she was out for cocktails with friends and I sent her this message today "Hey! With all due respect, I don't think the reason we haven't met to talk about this is about your schedule. My patience is running out. I'd appreciate an answer from you by Friday. If being with me needs that much thinking then it's obvious where your heart is. I'I respectfully withdraw myself on Friday if you can't make a choice. Have a good night!" Her response was, she knew this side of me would always come out and my words are hurtful and never thought of. Now she's confirmed an end to the relationship. Should I block her off all platforms or how is there a better way to handle it maturely?