Submitted by Throwra110814 t3_10vxep1 in relationship_advice
I recently found out my husband was cheating on me while I was having surgery. For about a month. We have two kids a 3 year old and a 1 year old. At what point can you forgive someone. Can you actually move past that? How can I look at him and not see the photos of another woman? Do I just throw everything away? Am I supposed to make it work for the kids? I feel so lost.
Edit: Thank you so much so everyone that has helped me and all the support it has been extremely helpful! I have decided to do a trial separation and counseling to help with my own mental health. I will also be seeking a lawyer to make sure my girls and I are okay! Before I make any decisions.