Submitted by Serious_Goose_865 t3_10ychea in relationship_advice
I used to be very beautiful and very able-bodied, until last year, when I was hit by a car. It caused a stroke, which took away function of the left side of my body. I also had a surgery on my skull that changed the way I look.We were together almost a year before it happened and we are still together now, and he visited me at the hospital every day. We had a very healthy sex life before the accident, now he is just never ‘in the mood’. I get it because he is my caretaker now as well as my boyfriend, and it’s hard to separate me being a patient from me being his girlfriend. He has a heart of gold, but oh my God I miss sex. And yes, I am able to have sex. And yes I am able to feel it.