Submitted by ThrowRadoodle1 t3_10yxs1e in relationship_advice
I 42f have been with my husband 45m for 4 years. We’ve currently been married for 4 days, and I am sadly writing this during my honeymoon.
My stepdaughter19 has always been vindictive towards me despite my years of trying to bond with her. I’ve done countless of things. I invited her to be one of my bridesmaids and she showed up to my wedding in a white fancy dress(not the one my husband specifically bought her for the wedding) and refused to change so I kicked her out the party. She decided to leave even though I told her she was welcome to stay and sent my husband this text about she thought it would be okay and even suggested that maybe I was worried she’d look better then me and she didn’t want to ruin my special day.
We are currently at this honeymoon resort in Florida. My husband slept the whole flight and then argued with me about his daughter and how she’s just a kid. He thinks I don’t understand because I have no children. We’ve only went out a few times here, when we put away a good chunk to be able to splurge here at the restaurants and events. It’s our honeymoon and this might be tmi but we’ve only had sex once!
We’re not arguing no more but he’s still being distant. He knew I was very excited to go to the beach because at home it is still very cold, and I tried asking him to go this morning, and he just goes “I don’t really feel like it.” And that I should go myself. He’s spent most of his time in this hotel, except going out to dinner with me a few times, which is so upsetting. I feel like we’re ruining our whole honeymoon. We’re here for two weeks so I still have time to fix it, even though I feel like I shouldn’t have too, but I don’t want to ruin our time together.
I showed him my other post and he said he may of made poor judgement and said he’d speak to his daughter. Now there’s someone commenting under my post and Im not sure if it is my stepdaughter or someone posing as my stepdaughter, I’m not sure if my husband told her. If so this, I think this marriage may not last long because I do not feel United with him. Advice?
TL;DR: I kicked Stepdaughter out of wedding party resulting in big argument with my husband. Now he’s being cold during our honeymoon. Advice?