Submitted by daybyday90 t3_10zqqny in relationship_advice
My partner (33F) and I (32F) have been together for about 9 months now. Of course when we met and at the beginning of our relationship it was all rainbows and flowers. Now we’re learning each other on a personal level. But I have a issue with her. She keeps using my bathing towel. Now, this may sound like a minuscule issue but I HAVE spoken to her 2-3x about it. I don’t find it to be a sanitary practice AT ALL and I just don’t want to share a towel with her or anyone else. This is nonnegotiable for me even though I’ve given her the grace of reminding her multiple times. I’ve asked her not to, I’ve made sure that our towels are completely different colors, given her 2 towels at once and have even removed my towel from the bathroom all together which inconveniences me since I have I put it somewhere she can’t find it. My next step at this point is to tell her she can’t shower at my place. This seems to be on the more extreme side in my opinion but that’s where I am at now. I don’t think I’m asking too much from her to use her own towel! Any advice is welcome. I’m trying to be reasonable here but she’s not leaving me much choice.