Submitted by ThrowRa198479302 t3_110cchp in relationship_advice
Hey,
so I wanted to get an opinion on the following situation. I started seeing a guys and from our first date on he has started telling me that I would look more beautiful if I lost weight and that I should go to the gym with him.
The thing is I am not really overweight. I am 176cm (5'9) tall and weight around 68 kilo (149, 91 lbs) . I do sports four times a week. I don't know if this is reason enough to stop seeing the guy, we've only been on a few dates so far and other than that I like him. It's also due to cultural differences, I live in an Asian country were the beauty standard is being super thin.
He said he isn't judging me for my weight but he clearly is.