Submitted by ThrowRAanyname2023 t3_111hgj0 in relationship_advice
I am not from the USA, sorry for any grammar mistakes.
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I, F28 and my boyfriend, M25, have been together for 4 years, living together for 3. Let me get straight to the point.
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We have been doing OF for 2 years, and it has been amazing. Before that I already enjoyed filming our sex, because all our friends consider us hot. It was also my idea to start OF.
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From the beginning we established some rules, and the main ones were never to tell anyone and never to show our faces.
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We are not very famous in the OF, but since we are not from the USA and we charge in dollars, this makes for very good money. My boyfriend does everything, he shoots the photos, films and edits the videos, checks 1000x that our faces are not showing, he also takes care of the instagram account that serves as publicity, etc. The only thing I do is buy clothes and costumes.
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From the beginning my boyfriend said it's only fair that I get 75% of the money, because "people are paying to see you, I'm just the lucky son of a bitch. But I am not very good with money, and I have spent practically everything on clothes, purses, make-up, and in December I bought a 200,000 car. He on the other hand only bought a giant TV, a PS5 and a computer.
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The problem started on Saturday when I received a message on my personal instagram, this person said that he knew I was selling photos and videos on the internet, and that he would tell my family everything. This person also asked for money. I immediately showed my boyfriend and said that I wanted to pay this person and said that I wanted to stop OF.
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My boyfriend said that we were not going to pay a dime to this person, told the person to go to hell, and blocked the account. He also said that we have no way to stop OF now, since we have many bills to pay, including the car. He said that I didn't save any money, and asked for another year to save money and look for a job. I have lost all desire to make videos. It used to be something I loved to do, now it's all gone. What do I do now?
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TLDR: I have a secret OF, but one person has threatened to tell my family about it. My boyfriend said we have no money saved to stop OF now.