Submitted by ThrowRA8183 t3_112jqsm in relationship_advice
A week ago, I completely betrayed my GFs trust while I was out at a boys night. I didn’t cheat, but I did behave a little inappropriately. She almost left me, but decided to give me a second chance.
My gf is pretty upset about it still. One day she’s acting normal and happy, the next she just wants to lay in bed and avoid me.
A few days after our huge fight I made plans to go away this weekend for a boys trip. My gf works 2 of the days and I don’t want to be at home waiting around for her.
My gf is super upset I’m going to be gone. She’s saying it’s inconsiderate because she’s still feeling really anxious about everything that happened. She says she’s not ready for me to go away this weekend and maybe in a few weeks she’ll feel more trusting.
I told her that I need to live my life and I don’t just want to stay at home sulking about it. I’d rather distract myself.
Advice on how to mend this with her?