Submitted by VermillionLeaves t3_116wlqg in relationship_advice
I am seriously considering ending it with my boyfriend after an incident that happened 2 nights ago.
We went out for a drink with our two friends, when it was time to go home, one of our friends wanted to go out for a curry. My boyfriend wanted to go home, so I told him that we could just skip the curry and go home. We decided to get a takeaway on the walk home for convenience. My friend was quite set on going for the curry and was acting irritated. This caused my boyfriend and him to have an argument, which resulted in my boyfriend throwing his takeaway on the sidewalk in a tantrum. I then showed him I was not happy with his actions and he then proceeded to grab my takeaway out of my hands and throw mine on the sidewalk.
I was gobsmacked. I’m angry at him and can’t believe he did that. I’m really struggling to calm down. I would NEVER dream of doing that to someone, especially my partner. I feel like in order to do that, you mustn’t have any respect for the person you’re doing it to.