Submitted by ThrowRAjetmanjack t3_11dn237 in relationship_advice
My (30M)'s fiance (29F) has been traveling the last few weeks. We started out talking regularly but shes gotten busy, and now we talk for about 20 to 30 mins only usually a day, and some days its only a handful of texts.
I have tried to be understanding that she must be tired from the work, and she does call me and text me even if its briefly or a single word or two.
I dont follow social media a lot, but I started noticing on her posts shes not wearing her engagement ring anymore. If she is out with coworkers or friends or if its just a selfie, its not there in any photo. For example there are photos of her at bars without the ring.
And also shes posting a lot of photos with one of her co-workers and there is no ring. I don't know if they are related. He is a man, and I did not think I need to be concerned, maybe I should? He is twice her age. I know one day when we were talking at night he knocked on her hotel door and asked her if she wanted to grab dinner and she told him she already had and was speaking to me.
The ring situation looks like it started 3 weeks into her travel. Shes been gone about 9 weeks. She still messages me before bed and it seems like she is in her hotel room when she goes to sleep.
Should I be concerned?