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AllItTakesIsNow t1_jebrc62 wrote

Just reach out to him and ask him to hang out and feel the vibes

Pretty simple. You’re over thinking things. You just have to do something and it either works or doesn’t. But nothing will happen if you don’t try

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ThrowRAAmandaa122 t1_jebs4c8 wrote

Yeah true you’re right ! The thing is I think that his feelings were really hurt and I know my self I won’t be able to just send him a message out of the blue after years of no talking , I feel it’s a bit awkward don’t you think ?

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AllItTakesIsNow t1_jebshnv wrote

Yeah you’re overthinking it. It’s awkward cause you think its awkward. If you want something with this guy YOU need to reach out to him. He already shot his shot and got denied

Just reach out to him and ask him how’s he’s doing or if he wants to grab coffee.

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