Submitted by gummmybean t3_11ftl5i in relationship_advice
EDIT: I did end up finding his wife on Facebook.
I haven’t seen this guy since November. Two months ago he randomly blocked me, then today he sent me this:
“I need to get some things off my chest and this is where I’m starting. I’m married. I’ve been with my wife almost 11 years. What happened is not who I am and definitely wasn’t worth possibly costing me my marriage and family.”
What do I even say to this? I had no idea he was married and now I feel guilty. Part of me thinks he is trying to shift his guilt onto me by sending me this.
I didn’t pursue this man, he pursued me.
How do I respond to this? Should I feel guilt?
EDIT: Thank you everyone for your support :,).
This was my response:
“This is all on you Brandon. I won’t share that guilt. You pursued me for months knowing you were betraying your family.
I hope you can learn from your mistakes and balance your priorities. Wishing your wife all the best. Hope she is ok.”
I am not going to censor his name.
He responded that him and his wife are fine now. I didn’t respond, then he blocked me.