Submitted by Time_Cheek4131 t3_11fzk7p in relationship_advice
As the title says, my girlfriend (23f) went out a few weeks ago with a friend which is usual, but as she was texting me the morning after I noticed (we share location with each other on snapchat) that she was at a different place other than her house. When I asked her she got a little defensive and said that she was at said friends house. I didn’t think much of it and left it there, last week however she went out with same friend and this time actually spent the night at her house which was a different spot than the first time. When I asked her about it on Friday she broke down and confirmed that the first night she spent at a guys house who she met that night but only slept on the couch, I want to believe her but this is a deal breaker for me. We are still pretty early in our relationship but have been very close from the start so this sudden lie concerns me about the future if we continued further.
I did break up with her afterwards but she has been still texting and wanting to get back together badly. I kinda want to since I did like her a lot but unsure if this is a good idea or not.