Submitted by throwra27890 t3_11jwllz in relationship_advice
Me and my boyfriend have only been dating now for about two months. Only recently we have became sexually active. Before this I made sure he tested himself and so did I. We always use protection but one time he didn’t and I got extremely upset because I did not consent to that. Anyways, afterward we had to go buy plan B.. we got into an argument because he pushed my boundaries which I strictly told him I did not want to have sex without protection. I took some time away from him and we ended up talking again he apologized, but I told him he strictly always has to use protection. Recently, he’s been saying he doesn’t like using condoms. And what alarmed me the most is that he keeps saying “if I would’ve met you sooner I would’ve knocked you up to lock you in”… he also says he wouldn’t mind getting me pregnant and hes been trying to have sex without protection as well, he only uses it when I tell him to. I didn’t want to come on here and say this but what do I do? I know I’m young, I’m only 21 still unexperienced with dating. I’m planning on breaking up with him. I didn’t want to come on here and say this because people tend to be judgmental. But I am on BC.
Edit— Thank you all for your advice I can’t respond to all of you but I did break up with him and blocked him on everything including socials. Thank you all.