Submitted by throwRAjackedstat t3_11l4ivu in relationship_advice
We've been married for a year now after dating for 7 yrs. I love her dearly and she is the light of my life. Everything is fine, except one thing that's been bothering me for a while.
Long story short, she won't let me go down on her unless she's clean shaven AND when she's in her fertile window. I've told her on numerous occasions I couldn't care less about the hair but she doesn't believe it.
Fine by me, I understand and respect that she doesn't feel comfortable with hair. I myself feel more comfortable when im shaved as well. But if it was only that, it wouldn't be that big of a deal since it's a "problem" with an easy fix- you just shave.
It's the fact she won't let me do it unless she's ovulating because she's convinced it'll "taste terrible and different when she's not as fertile" and that it will repulse me.
I know how much she likes it and there's nothing I enjoy more than pleasuring her. She sometimes tells me she wants me to but then won't allow me because she's close to getting her period or just got off it.
I've known her for almost a decade and it breaks me that she feels as though she needs to look or "taste" a certain way.
I tried to convince and tell her nothing about her or her body would ever come close to repulsing me but she won't believe it.
When she goes down on me with my own junk can be in the most questionable of states, and she doesn't care. I don't understand why she can't see it's the same for me.
(It's only oral sex that she has these strict rules on, with regular sex she doesn't care at all)