Submitted by ThrowRAexplicitvideo t3_11su2rx in relationship_advice
UPDATE: they were having an affair. Taking some time to figure out what I should do next. Words of wisdom welcome
TA for obvious reasons.
I found an explicit video of my husbands coworker (“Fran”) in his “recently deleted” album (iPhone). He claims it was sent to him by a male coworker (“Ken”). My husband claims that he deleted Ken’s message but the video was still saved to his camera roll but he deleted it.
Husband says that Ken & Fran are sleeping together. I messaged Fran and she denied this, saying she must have sent the video to Ken by accident and she is mortified that it got shared.
So two issues:
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I tried to replicate the deleting of a shared photo from my camera roll and it didn’t show up in my deleted pictures so pretty sure he saved the video after reviving it. Not sure if he actually got it from Ken or directly from Fran but honestly regardless of how he got it he clearly watched it which, gross.
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Was it really sent via Ken or is my husband cheating on me with Fran?
Feeling very lost / overwhelmed. We’ve been together 8 years and have a daughter under the age of 2.
TLDR; found an explicit video on my husbands phone, he claims it wasn’t intended for him