Submitted by ThrowRAihavenoidea90 t3_123g8mn in relationship_advice
My fiancé 30 (m) and I (29)f have two kids together, we've been with each other since 20/21 anyways so before I met my fiancé he never had a gf or sex with anyone before me. When we first started dating I told him when he asked about anyone I was with. So recently he started asking about some guy and i was annoyed as I didn't want to chat about him, my fiancé somehow forgot I had sex ideally not sex as I was asleep when I woke up to this guy on me) and I explained why I didn't want to speak about him. He got furious even though I had told him before, and started shouting at me how I broke his heart and that l've no self respect for myself and hasn't spoken to me since. I have no idea what's going on, I feel like I haven't done anything wrong. It happened well before I met him, I told a friend about this and she said that it wasn't sex it was rape as I was drunk and woke up to this guy on top of me. I'm just a bit lost at the moment