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Aggravating-Pear9760 t1_iuglkj5 wrote

He was making room for you in his life but you demanded more and tried to rush the process. It was only 6 months... Most people don't meet family, the kid or friends in that time but he tried with you. You tanked the relationship and feel like he owes you, he doesn't.

From his perspective you probably shower red flags and proved why bring with you was a bad idea. Relationships especially those with kids involved take time. It's not that he wasn't making you a priority he was sussing out if you were a good fit or not and you weren't.

Either your expectations were unrealistic and selfish or you sabotaged this relationship for some reason.

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AMP5288 OP t1_iuglzte wrote

He actually initiated me meeting his family and daughter… So wouldn’t that be him who rushed the process?

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Aggravating-Pear9760 t1_iugmhvc wrote

Not at all. Although maybe he feels that way now considering how it turned out. He was in a place to decide what would be best for him and his child and he decided he was serious enough about you to introduce you but you demanded more and decided the effort he made wasn't good enough for you, so you had a tantrum when you didn't get your way and torpedoed the relationship.

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AMP5288 OP t1_iugmzee wrote

Not quite a “tantrum”… Text messages were exchanged (he actually said things that were not nice) and I ended it on impulse. We’re all human and act on emotions sometimes. Also, him and I had multiple conversations about this issue so he was well aware and no changes were made.

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Aggravating-Pear9760 t1_iugn54w wrote

Understandable but unfortunately it's over and you have to find a way to accept he doesn't want contact. So whatever closure you want, you're going to have to get from moving on.

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