AMP5288 OP t1_iuglzte wrote on October 31, 2022 at 4:08 AM

Reply to comment by Aggravating-Pear9760 in Regret breaking up with single dad… thoughts? by AMP5288

He actually initiated me meeting his family and daughter… So wouldn’t that be him who rushed the process?

Aggravating-Pear9760 t1_iugmhvc wrote on October 31, 2022 at 4:13 AM

Not at all. Although maybe he feels that way now considering how it turned out. He was in a place to decide what would be best for him and his child and he decided he was serious enough about you to introduce you but you demanded more and decided the effort he made wasn't good enough for you, so you had a tantrum when you didn't get your way and torpedoed the relationship.

AMP5288 OP t1_iugmzee wrote on October 31, 2022 at 4:18 AM

Not quite a “tantrum”… Text messages were exchanged (he actually said things that were not nice) and I ended it on impulse. We’re all human and act on emotions sometimes. Also, him and I had multiple conversations about this issue so he was well aware and no changes were made.

Aggravating-Pear9760 t1_iugn54w wrote on October 31, 2022 at 4:20 AM

Understandable but unfortunately it's over and you have to find a way to accept he doesn't want contact. So whatever closure you want, you're going to have to get from moving on.