Submitted by svjuifbev t3_xzcndl in relationship_advice
I'm 20 and she is 21. Growing up, my father would constantly beat me and was an alcoholic. Eventually, he drank himself to death and I felt both relief I wouldn't have to suffer anymore as well as sad that he never became a real dad. My best friend was very supportive during this time.
A few months ago, I met a nice 45 year old man and started to date him. My best friend was angry at me for dating someone that old but no matter what I say, she doesn't believe that I'm trying to find a father figure.
How do I get her to believe me?