Submitted by ThrowRAMoms_BF t3_xzy6gk in relationship_advice
I made a post 10 days ago about this, If you would like to read it its here.
When I made my post and got some advice I decided to write a letter so I could get my thoughts and feelings out properly, I wont put it here because it is very person and emotional. Anyway I gave my mom the letter than night, I stayed in the room with her as she read it. I had tears welling up as she was reading thinking she would hate me after it. After she read it I started crying and she started crying, it was all very emotional but my mom assured me that she would never hate me and she was glad I wrote the letter and I think we just hugged for a solid few minuets just crying into each other. We calmed down a bit after that and just spent the rest of the night watching movies and eating junk food.
The morning after that my mom ending things with her bf. There was a bit of drama there with him calling me a sl*t and my mom screaming at him for calling me that but after that we haven't heard from him since and have been drama free. Me and my mom seem a lot closer now and I feel like I can be more honest with her without fear of judgement or losing her love. Thanks to the people who actually gave advice and didn't make disgusting comments. Your advice was very helpful and got me to pull my head out of my ass and tell her asap.