Submitted by ThrowRa_fiorki t3_y55psd in relationship_advice
A brief backstory before asking for advice, just so people will understand the situation better - my girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me because she had issue with my long-term female friend. She was accusing her of having feelings for me & crossing boundaries, but I seriously couldn't see what she was seeing, so we split up. I was relieved at first, because at least she didn't tell me to choose between them and decided to break up with me instead. I even confided in said friend and she was really supportive and sweet... until she actually tried to make a move on me, while I was still hurting after break up. She was at my place to grab a drink and when it was time to call it a night she tried to go to bed with me, saying that she can make my pain go away. I told her no and she actually got kind of hurt or maybe shy, idk, but she said that she only tried to make my ex eat her words. She went to sleep on the couch and apologized to me in the morning, saying the %%% were speaking through her.
We were both really drunk to be honest, I had a little more to drink than her probably but we both weren't in the right head space, yet it still bugs me. It makes me feel like my ex was right all along and she actually saw some signs that I ignored. The break up is still fresh, it happened just over a week ago. I don't know where to go from there and I was hoping to get some clarity and advice here.