Submitted by Genzhateclub t3_y70oee in relationship_advice
UPDATE: HE TEXTED ME! THIRD TIME WE WILL MEET!! How do I set boundaries ?? He texted me to hang out tmrw. I don’t know what to respond . I think the last time he texted me and cancelled, he was actually busy, but this time he texted me saying his availability for the whole week. It will be our third time hanging out. How do I bring up the the question of what we are. Or I honestly just wanna know him more and go on a date. How can I ask that. He said his long term goal is having a relationship but so far it’s just been hooking up. I don’t wanna come off attached but I actually wanna get to know him.
…. Okay... I matched with this guy and hooked up with him a few times. Never had better sex in my life. But I’m a college student, he’s employed, he never offers to Uber me home, and usually lets me get one drink at the bar before he escorts me back to his place. I genuinely can't stop thinking about him, and I’ve tried to get myself to see other men, but they’re nothing like him. The problem is, I’m going crazy. I genuinely can't handle not knowing what’s going to happen. He texts me last minute to pull up, and Its always at a late hour. And we made plans to hang out yesterday but he canceled last minute after I went and got all ready. I haven’t responded to his cancellation text because I am so upset, but I don’t know what to do, because I don’t wanna lose out on him. My anxiety levels are through the roof. He’s only looking at me for my body. But I need to know how to make him Into my man!! What do I respond to his cancellation text and should I? ***everyone that keeps saying he’s married- I have him on insta and he’s not! He also cuddles with me and offers to stay the night- why would he do that if I was just a HU