Submitted by tricera-ops23 t3_ybinec in relationship_advice
She's been extremely distant, and I have been recovering from a severe injury for about 5 months now. Went through her texts on her iPad, found out she has been texting this dude constantly, send him nudes everyday (in my house, at work) including vids of her playing w herself and extremely graphic texts recalling their nights. How much she loves sucking his dick, she let him fuck her in the ass, basically everything they could possibly do they've done it. I called her out and she came back from HIS HOUSE to talk to me about it. Confronted her and she broke down, told me it's been going on for 2 months at least and she's been lying to me the whole time. I honestly never expected her to do this, thought we were gonna marry and have a family etc. so I am just heartbroken, we live together and have a cat, I pay all the rent. I loved her with all my heart and gave her everything, now I just can't get what I saw or what she told me out of my head. She regrets it immensely and has been crying for 3 days. But I told her she has to leave because I feel as though she ruined everything for some stranger she doesn't even care about, and I am so sad that she gave herself away like that to someone besides me. Sorry for the extra long post but any advice would be much appreciated. How do I move past this?