Submitted by thinlimb t3_yd27j2 in relationship_advice
Me (26M) my ex (25 F) dated for a month then built a relationship ( just realized today's our 5th month anniversary oh god), we both were happy and considered it a serious relationship. Had some ups and downs, well do doesn't ? still we both made up every time.
This time she had the intention to get connected with a guy (through social media only but never had a conversation she says) who her sister set up. (her sister is abroad and doesn't know about us). When I confronted, she told me that she didn't want to hurt me so didn't tell me about this.
That was the moment I realized my worth to her.
But damn this hurts like hell, do you guys think if that was an impulsive action? or was it the right thing to do? I mean, when we were together I didn't go out looking for some other girls.