Submitted by ThrowRARedRetw t3_ydg66c in relationship_advice
My husband and I have been married for two years now and things are not perfect. We're both type A personalities with six-figure jobs and very big egos. We both really like to win and when we disagree it can be very difficult to resolve. We are trying to be better and we do love each other deeply. Neither one of us wants a divorce and we want things to work, we get each other like nobody else does.
My husband and sister are very close. When she found out we were getting married she was overjoyed. They text each other frequently and are always very happy to see each other.
We recently took a family trip to a beach house. My siblings were there, their spouses, my parents, my nieces and nephews, and me and my husband.
I was tired so after dinner I decided to lay down. I woke up, it was late, and my husband wasn't in bed. I walked out of the room and saw my sister and husband on the couch. She had her feet in his lap, and they were talking softly. I know I shouldn't have but I hung back to see if I could hear anything.
My sister asked a question that I couldn't really hear but seemed to be struggling to phrase. My husband said, "Yes. The answer is yes. And yes, the answer is no."
She replied, "I know."
I went back in our room at that point and I've been reeling ever since. I'm worried about what they were saying but I'm scared to say I was eavesdropping. I never saw them that close before, and it seemed like crossing a line.
Do I tell him not to talk to her anymore? Do I ask her what was said?
I feel like no matter what I do I look crazy.
TL:DR Found my husband quasi-cuddling with my sister and overheard a very cryptic exchange. No idea what to do now.
Edit: 'What' not 'Scat' though it seems an awful lot like scat.