Submitted by Remarkable_Try_1813 t3_yeby6g in relationship_advice
I've been with my GF for 8 months. She had trouble in work and was ranting to me. Her manager is black and they had a pretty bad fight about my gf performance. So when she was talking to me she kept using racial slurs. I told her there's no need for that, you can just not like the person no need to mention their race. So then she just said I'm racist so what? I love her but this is it for me. What would you say?
Thank you all for responding. We talked, after we both calmed down. I said her comments made me very uncomfortable and that I can't be with someone who, well is racist. I do understand that things can be said in anger but I would certanly never say anything like that, angry or not. In the end I dont think I could be with her, even if she says it was just said cos she was upset. Think it would always stay on my mind. And for anyone whos asking, no I'm not black.