Submitted by Chaturong t3_yfde90 in relationship_advice
My girlfriend and I met in university and has been dating for five years now. She moved into my place a few months ago. We never had any trouble until she sad she wants her friend to come over to hang out. Her best friend has a large, aggressive Rottweiler that he always take with him everywhere and I don't want that anywhere near my cat. My girlfriend accused me of being jealous so I told her that she can go over to hang out with him at his place but she is still pretty upset about it.
She said I'm worrying too much about it but I don't think I am. I've seen that dog running after stray cats before and know he can easily hurt my cat. He wouldn't leave it at home when he comes over either since he said he takes it with him wherever he goes. What do I do?
UPDATE : A few hours ago I confronted my girlfriend about this, telling her that she has ignored my concerns regarding my cat’s safety and prioritized her friend over that. She was really angry and said I was being overprotective, despite having seen the way the guy’s Rottweiler acts with cats before. I have broken up with her and gotten the key back. She’s moved out now.
UPDATE : Some of you thought she was cheating on me with him before the break up so I texted her last night to ask. As it turns out, you guys were actually right. She asked me if I was jealous because she was afraid that I caught on.