Submitted by Anoonymous7777 t3_ygef32 in relationship_advice
Both in our mid 20’s, Fiancé’s been working out of state for 4 months and he comes every 2-3 weeks on a weekend, we meet Saturday night for like 3-4 max hours and then Sunday is for his family and Sunday night he flies back. He started nightshift so that means he came Saturday morning and returns Monday morning. I thought we’d have time to meet tonight right? Nah, he finished his Friday night shift, caught the flight here this Saturday morning and spent it doing stuff on zero sleep then asks me to go movies later then I say well take a nap and put an alarm so you don’t sleep during the movie he goes okay. It’s literally almost 8pm and he’s still sleeping and I’m so over it. We usually meet max 7:30. If he wakes up I’m honestly not planning to reply back until he calls or if it’s late I’m just gonna say we’ll call it a night. Then We can meet up and go on a proper date in two weeks 👍 where he’ll probably do the same thing. Trying hard to control my emotions but it’s so annoying. Especially considering we can see each other every fortnight sometimes three weeks and it’s for like 3-4hrs. If I see him tonight it’ll prob be for like 3hrs or less too. This out of state work is until December.
feeling pissed but trying my hardest not to be toxic