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Adventurous-Place-10 t1_iyekmao wrote

Reply to comment by AnonLlama1 in I'm (33F) pregnant and feel unimportant to my husband (33M) by [deleted]

I’m afraid there seems no solution for you. Your husband will drop everything for his brother. He is his priority. As for you you can’t depend on him for anything. You better have a support system because if his brother is in crisis you and your children will be second. what also is hard is that nobody wants to change, no therapy anything. They are good in their little world.

Can you live like this?

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AnonLlama1 t1_iyeluxv wrote

It's difficult because my support system was my best friend and childhood friends. But, my husband is very uncomfortable with me hanging out with my best friend because he had a thing for me. And my friends don't want to get caught here.

I can't live like this. It really feels so lonely and miserable. But I don't want my child to have a divorced mom and dad.

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Adventurous-Place-10 t1_iyewvzu wrote

Yes it seems you feel quite lonely but can’t you make new friends like after the birth of your baby join a support group for mothers if there’s one available where you live.

Having a happy mother is also important for a child. If you’re having a breakdown or are depressed because you don’t have a fulfilled life will this be better than having divorced parents?

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