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throacco19 t1_iycgrti wrote

Reply to comment by idxearo in Trying hard not to pull this card by [deleted]

Fair point, although I did mention reasons that play towards his wellbeing which he is aware of. I can reiterate them if I wasn't clear the first time.

Also, it's not like I make him actively do anything, I just find comfort in his presence, which I agree is not a long term solution for my problems with my parents. I will have to stand up to them on my own one day, and I tried plenty of times already but it's like they forget the very next day. Admittedly I don't know how hard I'm trying because I don't want to completely lose contact with them, just to keep my distance, which they don't take well for now.

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idxearo t1_iydb79m wrote

By now he probably finds it all unbearable to deal with and he just doesn't feel comfortable being in your parent's house while you, yourself, are not comfortable. So, unless that dynamic changes then I don't see why he'd ever look forward to it and he likely can't give you a straight answer because you are pushy and do not take no for an answer.

If you do want to reiterate it, then by all means but be sure to carry that same energy for your parents.

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