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maplebacon420 t1_iydbbgy wrote

I would probably take the same position tbh: it’s awkward to take at your SOs parents house, and usually tiring because you’re on your best behaviour and trying to be courteous, and you’re also introducing elements of him being an emotional crutch for hard conversations. Who wouldn’t dread this type of visit?

Beyond that, it’s possible he doesn’t want to be stranded at their place for so many days at a time, and has other priorities that are on his mind that he could accomplish in that time. Could he visit for just one night so it’s more manageable and reasonable?

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throacco19 t1_iydc2l9 wrote

I usually stay for a night myself, and he doesn't have much going on that can't be solved from the computer. He only leaves the house when we go out or shopping. So I guess the first part of your comment makes more sense. Thank you!

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