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fromBC t1_iyf5ydc wrote

Maybe he looks at the relationship more as a FWB situation then a monogamous one. You should probably have a talk of what you both want and what's expected.

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LaughableBeam t1_iyf7n9h wrote

I mean, personally I think going to a strip club when you know your partner would be unhappy about it makes you look pretty stupid. So I think you might need clarification on the type of behaviour that he feels would make him look stupid.

But seriously, I think he's being a big manchild and not communicating what he actually wants. I would push him to communicate, like an adult, what he expects from the relationship. Otherwise, you're just going to end up having stupid arguments that go round in circles because you're not telling each other what you actually want and expect from the relationship.

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Jumpdogbark t1_iyfdjrx wrote

I think you are pretty immature and play stupid tic for tact games. You were upset that he went to a strip club so you started texting your ex. Same field is just an excuse to cover.

He is upset that you not only started texting your ex but then talked to him about him. How did you want him to respond? With hurt or anger?

Grow up and talk to him like an adult about how him going to the strip club hurt you and stop playing high school games.

Edit: words

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