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alexkartman t1_iyfbw4a wrote

A lot of times that is really a psychological problem. May not have anything to do with you at all.

My advice is I* would have him take Viagra (Sildenafil is generic). I think in his case only a half pill should be fine as he can initially get hard but his mind is preventing him from staying hard.

This can give him back his confidence during sex and he shouldn’t need it more than a few times until he’s back to normal.

*not a doctor or healthcare professional

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Lower_Ad_170 OP t1_iyfc8q6 wrote

I would agree! He compliments me loads and says he wants to have sex but he is really cautious to now incase he doesn’t stay hard. I would love him to try taking something but I feel he would take offence if I suggested it, I can get him hard but he explains he then starts overthinking and can’t focus on the sex cos he’s worried about staying hard!

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alexkartman t1_iyfcv05 wrote

Just let him know that you might have a solution to his mind being his own worst enemy and if he’s willing to be open minded.

He can go to a doctor or there’s plenty of options online that will prescribe.

It’s personally helped me get over my own issues during sex. Only used it 3 times and I was back to normal

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