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ishouldbew0rking22 t1_iya3kbs wrote

1 Look, I totally get your anger and if I was being cheated on I would want to know. But it sounds like you’re coming at this more for revenge than the well-being and safety of the other woman. She needs to know but I would definitely take some time to calm down and say it in a curt and tactful way.

2 I understand your frustration with her, but don’t you find it a little strange as her ex-boyfriend to be reaching out to her new boyfriend? Just let them be miserable together and take it as a blessing not a burden.

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Outrageous-Home2880 t1_iya6njr wrote

You're absolutely right, it is about revenge. That's really all there is to it.

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Deep-Junket2824 t1_iya6j44 wrote

I would still be petty. Karmas a bitch..

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Outrageous-Home2880 t1_iya8u4b wrote

My thoughts exactly! I spent years with her, legit loved her, my kids loved her, and she left me for some fat fuck she works with. Yeah I have no fucks left to give at this point lol

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Deep-Junket2824 t1_iyaa4iv wrote

Bro, I’m sure when she sees you happy she will then feel the pain of what she had. Shit always looks greener on the side. It’s not. My ex after seeing my with my now wife made the comment she wishes now what my wife has.. I thought to myself that another persons trash is someone else’s treasure..

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