Of course move somewhere more affordable. Why are you risking staying in an expensive area for a new relationship?

You have a kid. Being able to eat is your priority, not some dude.

Thinking of moving in with him? Don’t. Way too soon.

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And what about your child? What’s best for them?

Can you rent month to month at that rate or is it fixed term?