Submitted by getoffmylaaawn t3_ykr4kf in relationship_advice
I already know the answer to my question..but I'll ask anyway. My (F35) bf (M40) of almost 2 years has never said he loved me. Tonight, he was very tired, and laid down in bed to sleep. As soon as he laid down, I asked him " Do you care about me? Do you love me?". He said " I'm not having this conversation right now".. I said " It's a simple question..". He flipped out on me, said that I'm " starting shit. Starting arguments " he told me he doesn't care if I feel unhappy at the moment, told me he's tired and told me to " shut the fuck up" and flipped me off. He thinks I'm the one in the wrong... but... Thoughts? Is this emotional and verbal abuse?
*I want to add, that I'm constantly being yelled at, cussed at and screamed at by him for simply trying to have any conversation about any topic, esp. when I disagree with him on any topic. He yells so loud, the neighbors can hear him. I don't yell back. I keep quiet and try to explain myself in vain. This is why I think this is to the point of abuse. I am walking on egg shells, scared to ask him what his plans are for the weekend, because he might blow up on me. He says " it's none of my business". I asked him to play funny videos on YouTube, right after we laughed at some videos that I played. His reply was " it's not my job to entertain you".
11/7/2022 Added what I can relate to:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4iU4fIfG97k
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