Submitted by lilidunphy t3_ypx454 in relationship_advice
I discovered around two months ago that my boyfriend watched porn. We have been together for four years, and up until I found out about him watching it, I thought I was totally fine with the idea of it (also because you used to tell me he never watched it and never would). But when I found out, I felt shattered to pieces and could not stop crying for over a whole week. And even now, I sometimes think about it and feel absolutely terrible, shattered. I know I shouldn’t feel this way because i guess it’s normal that he watches it, he’s a guy, I should have known. But why do I still feel so bad when I think of it? Is there a way to overcome it?