Submitted by BluntestFox t3_yqrcg4 in relationship_advice
So, my partner and I have been together for 5 years. There’s never been any trust issues whatsoever. We have 2 children together.
She started a new job a couple of years ago, and told me after their Christmas work party that there was someone who was hitting on her who worked at a different office.
They’ve got a girlfriend, but I don’t know much about him. She called him ‘creepy’ and that he’s aware we’re together.
I saw a message pop up on her phone today, which is from an archived chat on WhatsApp, he was responding to her stating she’s home, and it had a kiss on the end of it. It seemed like it was the middle of a conversation, but there’s no messages from before that one.
I want to speak to her about this, but I don’t want to break our trust by her thinking I was looking through her messages.