Submitted by [deleted] t3_ytiypr in relationship_advice
(55m) (53f) We’ve been together for 20 years about seven years ago I was put on a medication that made me unable to perform in the bedroom. she was OK with it knowing that I needed the medication. Now I’ve been off of the medication for two years and I have been begging her to get affectionate and make love again and she doesn’t want to because she says she wants to build up the romance again. Am I missing something? I thought if you’re in love with somebody and been together that is just is a given that the attraction is there. I asked her if it was anything else and she said no, but in a hard time believing it. Do you guys have any idea? Has this happened to anybody? I’ve been more affectionate trying to get his text started but nothing! Thanks again, crib