Submitted by autumnleavesss96 t3_ytzsyb in relationship_advice
Tldr; my husband found out my 2 year oldson wasn’t his biological child so he kicked me out while pregnant
I’m staying at my brothers with my son now and I haven’t told anyone else. He is now filing for a divorce too.
This is because he found out that my son was not his biological child and got DNA testing behind my back. But the child I am pregnant with is is his but he doesn’t believe me and said he wants nothing more to do with me or my “b*******” which clearly was a double insult.
Also, my husband has no more love for my son just because he doesn’t have the same dna which is so sad because did he never properly love him all the time he thought he was his son? He raised him for 2 years as his own and he then tosses his little boy out to the streets. Literally because he didn’t know I would go to my brothers for all he knew I could’ve been forced to sleep on the streets and gotten kidnapped or something.
The bio father of my firstborn was one of his friends but he travels a lot for work and is not in my country at the moment and I’d rather not talk over text and I don’t even know if I want to tell him.
My brother has said that I can stay with him but he doesn’t support my decisions and actions. I don’t know what to do but I’m strangely calm. I’ve lost everything. My kids could grow up in no home.
My brother has texted my husband saying to just meet up to talk but my husband has read it and not replied so I don’t know how to go about it. I’m thinking if going to his house but I’m worried he will call the police.
My husband and I have been married for 5 years
I am 26 f
My husband is 28m
My brother is 23m